Thursday, September 3, 2009

Being There

Joyce was in the throws of raising her three children, working hard to provide a good home life for Kaitlyn, Jocelyn and Chris. She didn't just invest in the lives of her kids and call it good. She invested in her community. My husband preferred going to her pharmacy because of her friendliness and constant help. Countless others frequented her store because they liked to be around her. She is the kind of person who always made you laugh, asked about your own kids, arranged time to spend with friends - she like being there. There for friends, her kids and her community.

Well, Joyce can no longer be there - it's our turn to step up. Joyce died unexpectedly in her sleep almost 3 weeks ago. Shock has filled her community and you can almost feel the loss when you walk into her store. It's almost awkward. The flowers are starting to fade. Her kids will start school next week. The shock is beginning to wear off and the reality is setting in.

In the midst of crisis management, I learned what a hole she has left. But I am confident many have learned from her model - though she never intended that to be. Being there has so much value - more than a wrapped gift or a bonus from work - she was there. And the challenge to me, make the most of every opportunity - to be there, for those right along your path.

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